Accompanied by my mom, we went to Zul Radi, Chinta Weddings and RH Bridal to survey for mak andam and we also went to Theme Photography to survey for pixs. Good thing, ZR, CW and TP were all on da same street, side by side, except for RH which is situated at Joo Chiat Complex.
All da people in every single shop were very frenly dat we didnt feel akward but my mom especially fell in love wif da teramat frenly service of da Abg Yunos, owner of Theme Photography and Kak Bibiq of RH. Dey entertained us like we were kenalan lama. My mom couldnt stop saying dat we are definitely engaging da service of Theme Photography.
But for mak andam, my mom is torn between RH and Chinta Weddings. Chinta Weddings is a 2 mth old bridal boutique wif very modern and very glamer bridal costumes thus my mom like dier baju and especially da fact dat not many brides-to-be haf worn deir baju pengantin BUT both da makeup artists are men and my dad has kind of forbade us to get a male mak andam. He’s worried dat will invite people to ngumpat about us while me, I dont reali care lah da gender of da makeup artist as long he’s not da one to put on da baju pengantin on me.
So dat left me wif RH for my mak andam and Theme Photography for da pixs. But Im so so overbudget for da photos. So now time to contemplate….
But da time spent wif my mom was certainly great. I feel dat all dis wedding preps tingy has bonded us quite well. While we were in da train, talking about da marriage preps, da topic of da X came up. Till now my parents are not aware of da reason for da breakup of me and da X. And she kinda not letting it rest till she knows why. And usually at da most unexpected moment, da qns arises once again and everytime I’ll ans wif a “nuthinglah” and move on to anoder topic real fast.
Wat made me hepi is dat, my mom is hepi wif my choice of future hubby way betta den da X. In fact me and mom both are thankful to Allah dat we didnt get engaged despite several requests from her and dad. Well not dat we were rushing him but after 5 years of relationship, which parents dont get worried rite? I also found out som tings dat happened soon after da breakup dat she didnt tell me den. All dose new info helps me realise how fortunate I am wif wat I haf.
